Yes its another monday. My weekend was too short
I was up late chatting on MSN to that girl that I have been chasing. Girls, why can't they just not be confusing?!
Back to friends thinking that other friends are in love with their partner. Yeah that is a bit silly. I have on a few occasions given friends a slap and told them they are being silly/stupid.
I have known lots of people to look for someone or something to blame that is not themselves.
My last relationship ended badly because she left me for a friend. I could just blame the friend. But really all three of us had a hand in my relationships end. The 'friend' was hitting on my girl. My girl liked my friend and I did nothing. The relationship was not working anyway, but who knows if that was because she wanted to be with someone else or if it was just because we were not suited to each other.
Its a hard call to make. But I have learnt from my experience. I admit there was a bunch of stuff I did that I should not have or could have done better. So now I know for next time (whenever that will be).
However I am the type of person that looks to myself for blame before thinking about blaming someone else. I like to think I make my own destiny.
But some people don't want to look at themselves. They don't want to admit that they screwed up or that there is something wrong.
Basically Cromax it sounds like it is nothing to do with you. You should probably point that out. Might sound harsh, but if you can't tell your friends up front that they are being silly, then they are not really friends.