ChickeBabe's Aus Forum BIGGEST THREAD EVAR!!! - Page 204

**DarkSlayer** · 7-20-05, 22:08

hmm everytime i ask her to come to the movies or such tho, she always asks if im bringing friends. i get the feeling that she doesnt really want to be with me alone sometimes.
i think shes the opposite of what u were saying, chickebabe. i think she needs the larger crowds initially but i never seem to able to go out with her alone

**The MichelinMan** · 7-20-05, 23:33

that would really sux!....

ask if she would like to go a cafe, for a coffee or drink after work.......

**Cromax** · 7-20-05, 23:39

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Originally Posted by DarkSlayer

hmm everytime i ask her to come to the movies or such tho, she always asks if im bringing friends. i get the feeling that she doesnt really want to be with me alone sometimes.
i think shes the opposite of what u were saying, chickebabe. i think she needs the larger crowds initially but i never seem to able to go out with her alone

Well, that doesn't sound too good.

But ... be upfront and honest. Who cares if you get knocked back.

You could liken it to sales. You get many knockbacks, but a few people are interested in what you're selling. The hard part is to get through the bad ones to get to the good ones

Well, that's how I look at it anyhow.

**DarkSlayer** · 7-21-05, 0:01

yeah spose. im stuck with the usual problem when it comes to asking a friend out.

still want to be friends with her so it could be a problem if shes knocks me back :S

**The MichelinMan** · 7-21-05, 1:56

women loves these's dum games!

**Cromax** · 7-21-05, 2:46

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkSlayer

yeah spose. im stuck with the usual problem when it comes to asking a friend out.

still want to be friends with her so it could be a problem if shes knocks me back :S

The question to ask: Are you happy being just friends?

Which then raises another question: Is your friendship more important than what you want?

**Chickebabe** · 7-21-05, 4:35

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarkSlayer

hmm everytime i ask her to come to the movies or such tho, she always asks if im bringing friends. i get the feeling that she doesnt really want to be with me alone sometimes.
i think shes the opposite of what u were saying, chickebabe. i think she needs the larger crowds initially but i never seem to able to go out with her alone

Yeah well there are crowds and CROWDS.... if you know what I mean... I mean going to the movies isnt being alone either. But its a different crowd that the clubbing thing you know??

I would also maybe suggest what Cromax said and just go for it.... Its hard i know... bbut sometimes you've just gotta go fro it.

**Cromax** · 7-21-05, 6:55

Make sure you're confident when you ask. Don't over-prepare. Just dive in head first and you'll be fine.

The worst that will happen isn't as bad as wondering what could've happened.

**Chickebabe** · 7-21-05, 18:37

Ditto to that.... its better to regret doing something that regret not doing it at all!!!

**Cromax** · 7-21-05, 20:12

Oh - don't be too serious. Be light-hearted and confident.

Mention it en passant.

**DarkSlayer** · 7-21-05, 20:37

hehe yeah :P

i want to do it in person tho and although we talk pratically every night, yesterday was the first time id seen her in bout 3 weeks :P

**Chickebabe** · 7-21-05, 23:22

I am having a bad day today so now its everyones turn to give me some cheer up vibes!!!

**The MichelinMan** · 7-21-05, 23:25

get in line chickebabe...........lol, j/k

whats up?.........men trouble? hehe

**ODIN** · 7-21-05, 23:36

look on 940 more posts to 4000

lol. Weekends ahead!!!

**The MichelinMan** · 7-21-05, 23:42

ya! odin........i think we should take care of that by the end of the weekend :P

4000's hear we come

7-20-05, 22:08	#3046 (permalink)
DarkSlayer Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Perth, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	hmm everytime i ask her to come to the movies or such tho, she always asks if im bringing friends. i get the feeling that she doesnt really want to be with me alone sometimes. i think shes the opposite of what u were saying, chickebabe. i think she needs the larger crowds initially but i never seem to able to go out with her alone
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7-20-05, 23:33	#3047 (permalink)
The MichelinMan His Royal Freshness Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	that would really sux!.... ask if she would like to go a cafe, for a coffee or drink after work.......
	Jesus said to those who believed in him "if you obey my teaching, you are really my disciples; you will know the truth and the truth will set you free." JOHN:8:31-32

7-21-05, 0:01	#3049 (permalink)
DarkSlayer Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Perth, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	yeah spose. im stuck with the usual problem when it comes to asking a friend out. still want to be friends with her so it could be a problem if shes knocks me back :S
	Hail to the King, Baby! 1997 BMW Z3 Roadster, 2.8L I6 5-speed manual 1994 Kawasaki ZZR250, 6-speed parallel-twin fully-faired SOLD 1990 Eunos Cosmo 20B Twin Turbo

7-21-05, 1:56	#3050 (permalink)
The MichelinMan His Royal Freshness Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	women loves these's dum games!
	Jesus said to those who believed in him "if you obey my teaching, you are really my disciples; you will know the truth and the truth will set you free." JOHN:8:31-32

7-21-05, 6:55	#3053 (permalink)
Cromax Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia Age: 26 iTrader: (0)	Make sure you're confident when you ask. Don't over-prepare. Just dive in head first and you'll be fine. The worst that will happen isn't as bad as wondering what could've happened.
	1993 Mazda MX6 4WS 2004 Mazda RX8 Luxury "If it was so, it might be; and it were so, it would be; but as it isn't, it ain't. That's logic." - Lewis Carrol

7-21-05, 18:37	#3054 (permalink)
Chickebabe Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Hobart, Tasmania, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	Ditto to that.... its better to regret doing something that regret not doing it at all!!!
	Procrastinate now, don't put it off

7-21-05, 20:12	#3055 (permalink)
Cromax Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia Age: 26 iTrader: (0)	Oh - don't be too serious. Be light-hearted and confident. Mention it en passant.
	1993 Mazda MX6 4WS 2004 Mazda RX8 Luxury "If it was so, it might be; and it were so, it would be; but as it isn't, it ain't. That's logic." - Lewis Carrol

7-21-05, 20:37	#3056 (permalink)
DarkSlayer Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Perth, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	hehe yeah :P i want to do it in person tho and although we talk pratically every night, yesterday was the first time id seen her in bout 3 weeks :P
	Hail to the King, Baby! 1997 BMW Z3 Roadster, 2.8L I6 5-speed manual 1994 Kawasaki ZZR250, 6-speed parallel-twin fully-faired SOLD 1990 Eunos Cosmo 20B Twin Turbo

7-21-05, 23:22	#3057 (permalink)
Chickebabe Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Hobart, Tasmania, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	I am having a bad day today so now its everyones turn to give me some cheer up vibes!!!
	Procrastinate now, don't put it off

7-21-05, 23:25	#3058 (permalink)
The MichelinMan His Royal Freshness Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	get in line chickebabe...........lol, j/k whats up?.........men trouble? hehe
	Jesus said to those who believed in him "if you obey my teaching, you are really my disciples; you will know the truth and the truth will set you free." JOHN:8:31-32

7-21-05, 23:36	#3059 (permalink)
ODIN Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Canberra, Australia Age: 29 iTrader: (0)	look on 940 more posts to 4000 lol. Weekends ahead!!!
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7-21-05, 23:42	#3060 (permalink)
The MichelinMan His Royal Freshness Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	ya! odin........i think we should take care of that by the end of the weekend :P 4000's hear we come
	Jesus said to those who believed in him "if you obey my teaching, you are really my disciples; you will know the truth and the truth will set you free." JOHN:8:31-32