ChickeBabe's Aus Forum BIGGEST THREAD EVAR!!! - Page 901

**Chickebabe** · 10-14-06, 13:41

Morning Peoples

**91turbo666** · 10-14-06, 18:43

its interesting how the party goers come online in the early hours of the morning to post....then shortly after chickebabe is just waking up

this place is active 24/7 or what? and we're all pretty much in the same time zone

**Chickebabe** · 10-14-06, 20:45

heheh Yeah it's pretty International Friendly really.. people from all over the world could post here and it wouldn't be long til there was a reply.

**Cromax** · 10-14-06, 21:05

Oh dear, I ended up just getting back home. I was trying to convince a mate that he's not being reasonable, and he turned around and accused me of liking ... no ... being in love with his girlfriend!!!

WTF?! It's like: as if I'd be in love with his girlfriend, and even if I was, as if I'd pursue it! Apart from the fact that she is rather easy to look at, she's my mate's girlfriend, and at the end of the day I can't pursue it! Like, seriously, I'm not that sort of guy ... apart from the moral standards I keep, I could never ever ever do that to him!

Just because I'm like, the only mate who actually likes his girlfriend (I reckon she's pretty cool sometimes) ... I get accused! Is this normal? Oh Angela, please pass me some of that wisdom.

I'm so sick of being the nice guy, it's getting me into trouble!

**RdS** · 10-14-06, 21:23

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cromax

Oh dear, I ended up just getting back home. I was trying to convince a mate that he's not being reasonable, and he turned around and accused me of liking ... no ... being in love with his girlfriend!!!

WTF?! It's like: as if I'd be in love with his girlfriend, and even if I was, as if I'd pursue it! Apart from the fact that she is rather easy to look at, she's my mate's girlfriend, and at the end of the day I can't pursue it! Like, seriously, I'm not that sort of guy ... apart from the moral standards I keep, I could never ever ever do that to him!

Just because I'm like, the only mate who actually likes his girlfriend (I reckon she's pretty cool sometimes) ... I get accused! Is this normal? Oh Angela, please pass me some of that wisdom.

I'm so sick of being the nice guy, it's getting me into trouble!

if he is being a prick to you, get with her. itl be funny.

**Fitzyb** · 10-14-06, 22:17

lol, great advice there russ lol, im going to leave this to the female of the thread, cause all id do in that situation is laugh at him and tell him hes dreaming

**AusTerror** · 10-14-06, 23:42

yep people are weird.

**Fitzyb** · 10-15-06, 1:45

i went to take pics of my car since i just washed her and its a nice day, but i took about 3 b4 security told me to get [fizzle]ed cause im not allowed to take pics cause i could be a terrorist or some [shizzle] like that, apperentally the fact that theres no signs or anything stating this meant nothing to this tool, oh well, better luck next time lol

**jmoore** · 10-15-06, 3:59

where abouts was this fuzzy

**Fitzyb** · 10-15-06, 4:05

at whitties, in the bigW loading dock area, had a nice industrial look about it without being in a dodgy area, fookin westfield security *rolls eyes*

**RdS** · 10-15-06, 6:25

i love industrial photers!!

they make great backdrops.

**Fitzyb** · 10-15-06, 7:52

u know what mate, i couldnt agree more lol

**Chickebabe** · 10-15-06, 14:31

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cromax

Oh dear, I ended up just getting back home. I was trying to convince a mate that he's not being reasonable, and he turned around and accused me of liking ... no ... being in love with his girlfriend!!!

WTF?! It's like: as if I'd be in love with his girlfriend, and even if I was, as if I'd pursue it! Apart from the fact that she is rather easy to look at, she's my mate's girlfriend, and at the end of the day I can't pursue it! Like, seriously, I'm not that sort of guy ... apart from the moral standards I keep, I could never ever ever do that to him!

Just because I'm like, the only mate who actually likes his girlfriend (I reckon she's pretty cool sometimes) ... I get accused! Is this normal? Oh Angela, please pass me some of that wisdom.

I'm so sick of being the nice guy, it's getting me into trouble!

Hey there.. I only just saw this now... Although we've already briefly chatted about it... so I don't feel too bad about this delayed reply....

I think sometimes things like that happen in a relationship, more as a sign of weakness between the couple and when there is that weak stop within their relationship, if you happen to be standing anywhere near it... you'll be the one someone points the finger at. Maybe their relationship is a little unstable or something or maybe he is jealous that you get well with her ....

I think probably deciding that you are 'in love' with her is really going extreme. It would be one thing to be thinking you think she is alright, but loving her is pretty extreme. which is probably more of a reason that the entire thing is deeper and that there is an underlying problem between them.. (even if they don't know it yet). - (also remember everything SEEMS worse and it blown out to be a bigger drama when people haven't slept or have been drinking or whatever the case).

I would say to stick by your mate, try and be understanding of him.Which will be hard if he is telling you something you are not doing. BUt you gotta stick by your mates. If something really is a problem deeper in their relationship then he is going to need you and he will need to know he can rely on you....

Anyway that is my brief opinion on this........ will catch up soon tho. Hope it gets sorted sooner rather than later.

Morning Everyone... And Welcome to another Monday!

**AusTerror** · 10-15-06, 19:36

Yes its another monday. My weekend was too short

I was up late chatting on MSN to that girl that I have been chasing. Girls, why can't they just not be confusing?!

Back to friends thinking that other friends are in love with their partner. Yeah that is a bit silly. I have on a few occasions given friends a slap and told them they are being silly/stupid.

I have known lots of people to look for someone or something to blame that is not themselves.

My last relationship ended badly because she left me for a friend. I could just blame the friend. But really all three of us had a hand in my relationships end. The 'friend' was hitting on my girl. My girl liked my friend and I did nothing. The relationship was not working anyway, but who knows if that was because she wanted to be with someone else or if it was just because we were not suited to each other.

Its a hard call to make. But I have learnt from my experience. I admit there was a bunch of stuff I did that I should not have or could have done better. So now I know for next time (whenever that will be).

However I am the type of person that looks to myself for blame before thinking about blaming someone else. I like to think I make my own destiny.

But some people don't want to look at themselves. They don't want to admit that they screwed up or that there is something wrong.

Basically Cromax it sounds like it is nothing to do with you. You should probably point that out. Might sound harsh, but if you can't tell your friends up front that they are being silly, then they are not really friends.

**NiN^_^NiN** · 10-15-06, 19:42

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Originally Posted by Fitzyb

u know what mate, i couldnt agree more lol

That egg carton wrecks that picture

10-14-06, 13:41	#13501 (permalink)
Chickebabe Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Hobart, Tasmania, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	Morning Peoples
	Procrastinate now, don't put it off

10-14-06, 20:45	#13503 (permalink)
Chickebabe Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Hobart, Tasmania, Australia Age: 25 iTrader: (0)	heheh Yeah it's pretty International Friendly really.. people from all over the world could post here and it wouldn't be long til there was a reply.
	Procrastinate now, don't put it off

10-14-06, 21:05	#13504 (permalink)
Cromax Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia Age: 26 iTrader: (0)	Oh dear, I ended up just getting back home. I was trying to convince a mate that he's not being reasonable, and he turned around and accused me of liking ... no ... being in love with his girlfriend!!! WTF?! It's like: as if I'd be in love with his girlfriend, and even if I was, as if I'd pursue it! Apart from the fact that she is rather easy to look at, she's my mate's girlfriend, and at the end of the day I can't pursue it! Like, seriously, I'm not that sort of guy ... apart from the moral standards I keep, I could never ever ever do that to him! Just because I'm like, the only mate who actually likes his girlfriend (I reckon she's pretty cool sometimes) ... I get accused! Is this normal? Oh Angela, please pass me some of that wisdom. I'm so sick of being the nice guy, it's getting me into trouble!
	1993 Mazda MX6 4WS 2004 Mazda RX8 Luxury "If it was so, it might be; and it were so, it would be; but as it isn't, it ain't. That's logic." - Lewis Carrol

10-14-06, 22:17	#13506 (permalink)
Fitzyb Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Perth, Australia Age: 22 iTrader: (0)	lol, great advice there russ lol, im going to leave this to the female of the thread, cause all id do in that situation is laugh at him and tell him hes dreaming
	1993 626 Hatch, infinity @ 0 mph Engine starts and runs, final touches being completed, back soon Really need to update that -> http://www.cardomain.com/ride/2330972

10-15-06, 1:45	#13508 (permalink)
Fitzyb Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Perth, Australia Age: 22 iTrader: (0)	i went to take pics of my car since i just washed her and its a nice day, but i took about 3 b4 security told me to get [fizzle]ed cause im not allowed to take pics cause i could be a terrorist or some [shizzle] like that, apperentally the fact that theres no signs or anything stating this meant nothing to this tool, oh well, better luck next time lol
	1993 626 Hatch, infinity @ 0 mph Engine starts and runs, final touches being completed, back soon Really need to update that -> http://www.cardomain.com/ride/2330972

10-14-06, 18:43	#13502 (permalink)
91turbo666 Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Canberra, Australia iTrader: (0)	its interesting how the party goers come online in the early hours of the morning to post....then shortly after chickebabe is just waking up this place is active 24/7 or what? and we're all pretty much in the same time zone

10-14-06, 23:42	#13507 (permalink)
AusTerror Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Canberra, Australia iTrader: (0)	yep people are weird.

10-15-06, 4:05	#13510 (permalink)
Fitzyb Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Perth, Australia Age: 22 iTrader: (0)	at whitties, in the bigW loading dock area, had a nice industrial look about it without being in a dodgy area, fookin westfield security rolls eyes
	1993 626 Hatch, infinity @ 0 mph Engine starts and runs, final touches being completed, back soon Really need to update that -> http://www.cardomain.com/ride/2330972

10-15-06, 6:25	#13511 (permalink)
RdS Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: melbourne AUS iTrader: (0)	i love industrial photers!! they make great backdrops.
	1995 mazda mx6. 5spd. Silver. 4WS pack. (gone) AW11 MR2. 5spd. red. sunroof. 4/1976 GMH Monaro GTS. Red GE's FTW. GE20L200102537 where art thou?

10-15-06, 7:52	#13512 (permalink)
Fitzyb Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Perth, Australia Age: 22 iTrader: (0)	u know what mate, i couldnt agree more lol
	1993 626 Hatch, infinity @ 0 mph Engine starts and runs, final touches being completed, back soon Really need to update that -> http://www.cardomain.com/ride/2330972

10-15-06, 19:36	#13514 (permalink)
AusTerror Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Canberra, Australia iTrader: (0)	Yes its another monday. My weekend was too short I was up late chatting on MSN to that girl that I have been chasing. Girls, why can't they just not be confusing?! Back to friends thinking that other friends are in love with their partner. Yeah that is a bit silly. I have on a few occasions given friends a slap and told them they are being silly/stupid. I have known lots of people to look for someone or something to blame that is not themselves. My last relationship ended badly because she left me for a friend. I could just blame the friend. But really all three of us had a hand in my relationships end. The 'friend' was hitting on my girl. My girl liked my friend and I did nothing. The relationship was not working anyway, but who knows if that was because she wanted to be with someone else or if it was just because we were not suited to each other. Its a hard call to make. But I have learnt from my experience. I admit there was a bunch of stuff I did that I should not have or could have done better. So now I know for next time (whenever that will be). However I am the type of person that looks to myself for blame before thinking about blaming someone else. I like to think I make my own destiny. But some people don't want to look at themselves. They don't want to admit that they screwed up or that there is something wrong. Basically Cromax it sounds like it is nothing to do with you. You should probably point that out. Might sound harsh, but if you can't tell your friends up front that they are being silly, then they are not really friends.